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City Councilman Bill Moody opens up about son’s passing, plants tree in his memory


March 2, 2017
By Bill Davis | News Editor

When asked three years ago to talk about his oldest son, Brian, being diagnosed with an aggressive brain tumor, City Councilman Bill Moody said, “Now isn’t the right time.”

When Brian got sicker, Moody held firm. “It’s not time.”

When Brian died early Easter morning last year at 52 years old, Moody said, “It’s still not time.”

Two weeks ago, it was time. It was time for neighbors, family, friends, and members of the community to gather where the West Ashley Greenway intersects with Betsy Road on the way to Moody’s house to plant a tree to honor his son, a former school board chairman and Chamber of Commerce leader. Last year the Charleston Metro Chamber of Commerce named Brian as the winner of the 2016 Joseph P. Riley Leadership Award, which celebrates a visionary leader who has done extraordinary work to strengthen the community.

The fringe tree, a native species, will flower in the coming years with a showy white flower in the spring, and will grow tall enough to provide a beautiful site, but not tall enough to threaten power lines.

“It’s never time and it’s always time,” said Moody, as he sat on the back porch of his West Ashley creekside home where he has his morning coffee.

Dressed in Citadel workout clothes and red, misty eyes, Moody said the two worst days in his life were the October 2014 day Brian told him his diagnosis and when Hurricane Hazel struck Myrtle Beach, wrecking his childhood home.

While exotic birds squawked next door, Moody opened up publicly about his love and his pain.

“It’s a bittersweet thing,” said Moody, proud and happy to have had so many years and memories with a son who was a successful family man, public servant, and businessman. “I have the memories, but I hate that we won’t be making any more.”

Brian had years ago taken over Bill’s accounting firm as managing partner and then went into public service, serving on a host of local boards and efforts. Brian, the first Moody into politics, went on to serve more than a decade on the Charleston County School Board, where he was elected as its chairman.

Those were tough times for the school district, where all three of Bill’s now-grown children had attended school. Scores were down. Schools were in disrepair. There was little political will in the community for more funding for much needed improvements, especially after the district made a major multi-million dollar mistake in funding.

Brian’s calm demeanor and perseverance won out, as the community eventually voted for a Chamber-led effort to plug hundreds of millions into school projects. Brian went on to lead the Chamber, and the community has since voted to spend a total of close to $1 billion on school building projects, potentially transforming areas of town and untold children’s lives.

School wasn’t always a priority for Brian, says his dad. A sophomore at Clemson, he was floundering a bit, earning C’s, asking for a fifth year to accommodate the classes he’s already dropped.

Bill remembers sitting down with Brian, saying that if he wanted a C average, that was fine with him, even though it wasn’t his plan for his older son. “I told him this is your plan, your life … and that he’d end up getting a C job, and a C wife, and having C kids.”

The talk worked. Brian not only finished on time, he took 21 hours both of his final semesters and was on the Dean’s list for his higher grades. He scored A’s in the other categories too.

These days, Bill sees the grown children of friends getting into scrapes with the law. “I’d take that in a heartbeat if it mean I could have Brian back,” he says, his throat tightening, his voice growing raspy as tears try to fight their way out.

Bill recalls the day when Brian, with the aggressive glioblastoma tumor growing in his brain, came to him and asked his father to “get his affairs in order for him.”

That hurt. Bill knew exactly what to do. He’d always been a T’s crossed, I’s dotted kind of accountant, whereas Brian was always more of a “big picture guy” who welcomed leadership roles.

Like many fathers, Bill had an unwritten rule with Brian. “He was going to deliver my eulogy; but he told me I wasn’t going to deliver his — he said his two sons were going to do that. And they did a great job.”

Brian left behind more than a legacy off public service and success. He left behind a loving wife, Maribeth, an affectionate mom, Audrey, and sons William Brian Jr. and Benjamin Arthur; brother County Councilmember Brantley, who has followed the family footsteps into politics, a sister, Alison.

There are pictures of Brian all over Bill’s house, as well as photos of the rest of the family. That help sustains Bill these days. As do the memories and videos of family ski trips with all the grandchildren.

Brian’s mantra was to leave his community better than when he found it. And Charleston, and Bill Moody, are better for his life, even though both are saddened by his passing.

It will take time for that tree planted in his honor to flower. But it will. And it will be bittersweet.

Comments (3)

  1. My heart still breaks for you in the loss of Brian, but this is a wonderful article and brought me to tears. I hope that joy and memories will continue to blossom as his tree will. Prayers and hugs.

  2. Love to all. What a lovely way to remember your dear son.

  3. There are few families as special as The Moody’s. We are grateful for their love and devotion to each other and their dedication to making our world a better place. Every branch, leaf, and bloom on the tree will represent all of those who love all of them. Brian would be as proud as we are of all of them.
    I cherish my friendship with the matriarch and patriarch of the Moody clan.
    Grief is the price we pay for the everlasting love of another soul. To know how much they miss their oldest son hurts anyone who is blessed to usually see their smiling faces. The truth is, the Moody’s are always up, happy and together. Their love for one another is what makes them tick.
    Theirs is a rare and real family who when faced with the tragic passing of Brian, did what they do best. Hundreds waited hours to pay their respects at the church that binds their faith. They welcomed each person, each hug, thought, and handshake. It is who they are, a family of amazing grace. And it all began with an amazing mother and father, Audrey and Bill.
    Brians legacy was natural, his genes inherited, his integrity earned and that smile was, well, all Moody!
    May Brians memory forever bless them with love, lessons, and laughter.

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